Now when you know someone, what are the things do you remember? I am sure things that are sensational to you, something that you have never experienced or will never do it and you talk about those things to others. Do you give the right picture of that person? I think not.
Why don’t we sit back and think that what we think is ‘cool’ or ‘un-cool’ might have a totally different perspective? There might have been a reason behind the action, or may be just a thought again!
Am I getting convoluted? Well, its hard for me explain my relationship with my youngest aunt, aka Kutti to people…most of them feel that its impossible to share every damn detail with someone who is 26yrs elder to you. How can I explain my relationship with her that is usually seen as absurd, impossible?
That if I have doped once in my life becomes hot news and they easily forget my 14 yrs of singing or 8years of writing. I am sure these details are given just to add colour in my life or may be portray me as this ‘fickle-minded’, ‘reckless’ person. Fact is no one knows the truth behind me doping once (frankly, it was only a kash from that dopey cigarette!).
Now there is a lesson for me too…I too need to re-look at how I see people, dump the baggage of sensational items and understand the person as she/he is…I know its difficult and a matter of perspective. But these experiences have allowed me to introspect and I shall do the same!
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